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RELATIONSHIP BY DESIGN

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You want...

  • Deeper trust and connection

  • Personal growth + self-discovery

  • Enhanced sexual and emotional novelty

  • Greater freedom and autonomy in relationships

  • Honest and transparent communication

But you...

  • Jealousy, insecurity, guilt, or shame
  • Confusion about boundaries and societal expectations
  • Ineffective communication and time-management skills
  • Concerns about unequal attention or favoritism
  • Difficulty managing emotions

And you're afraid of...

  • Losing intimacy with your partner or the relationship entirely
  • Emotional attachments to secondary partners
  • Uncertainty and the unknown
  • Losing control over relationship dynamics
  • Being perceived as immoral or unethical

We weren't given the tools + skills we need to build the relationships we want + deserve.

 

We're taught that we're all unique but that relationships are a one-size-fits all game, and that's simply not the case. With divorce rates skyrocketing and research showing 43% reported infidelity, including 20% of married men and 13% of married women, it's no wonder you're curious to see if there's another way.

Exploring consensual non-monogamy requires thoughtful preparation and the right resources. This course offers a structured approach to designing a relationship that reflects your unique needs and desires.

Why be in a relationship off the rack when you can create a designer relationship together? There is a better way!

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Your Relationship Doesn't Have A Pause Button

Learn the tools and skills you need to build the relationships you want and deserve.

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INTRODUCING...

ENM 101: EXPLORING HEALTHY NON-MONOGAMY

Traditional relationships don't fit everyone. With rising divorce rates and significant instances of infidelity, it's natural to explore alternatives. This is a course for people who want to explore potentially opening up their relationship, but don't want to explode it!

At the end of this course, you don't have to open up your relationship. This course may just be a tool that you are using to determine if consensual non-monogamy is right for you.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE NON-MONOGAMOUS TO BENEFIT FROM LEARNING ABOUT NON-MONOGAMY.

By learning these skills, even if you choose monogamy, you will only strengthen your relationship and deepen your bond by giving you a key takeaway tool imperative for relationship longevity.

Course Highlights: 

  • Comprehensive Curriculum: Over 30 lessons:

    • Defining your Hierarchy of Exclusivity
    • Learning essential vocabulary and terminology
    • Understanding various relationship dynamics
    • Discovering your ideal relationship structure
    • Building a customized Relationship Agreement
  • Flexible Learning: Access the course online at your own pace, with lifetime access to materials, which are regularly updated.

  • Expert Guidance: Learn from an experienced and certified professional in relationship design and non-monogamy. 

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MODULE 1: Introduction to Non-Monogamy

Unpack the basics of consensual non-monogamy and explore different relationship structures to identify what works best for you and your partner. Lay the groundwork for a relationship built on trust, clarity, and shared vision.

MODULE 2: Building A Strong Foundation

Master the art of open communication, set clear boundaries, and deepen trust to create a safe and connected partnership. Learn how to strengthen your bond while exploring new possibilities together.

MODULE 3: Healing Past Trauma

Transform past relationship challenges into opportunities for growth. This module helps you understand your attachment styles and fosters emotional healing through honest exploration and connection.

MODULE 4: Tools for Safer Exploration

Turn jealousy into a tool for growth and foster emotional security in your relationship. Discover how to cultivate compersion and build confidence in your exploration of consensual non-monogamy.

MODULE 5: Sensual Power + Self-Exploration

Tap into your sensual potential and explore your authentic desires with confidence. Learn how embracing your sensuality can transform not just your relationships, but every aspect of your life.

MODULE 6: The Relationship Agreement

Design a personalized roadmap for your non-monogamous journey with a clear, flexible Relationship Agreement. This module ensures alignment, transparency, and mutual understanding as your relationship evolves.

EXPLORE WITH INTEGRITY

 

Imagine yourself in a sustainable relationship with...

✓ more excitement and novelty through sexual exploration, variety, and emotional connections

✓ personal growth and self-discovery through exploring respectful freedom and mutual autonomy

✓ honest and transparent communication leading to compersion and deeper intimacy with your partner

This course will provide you with the tools and knowledge you need to make this dream a reality. You can be deeply in love and fully committed while exploring freely and safely!

Designed to elevate your connection and communication, this online course is your opportunity to dive into a world where love is limitless and every experience is an opportunity to strengthen the bond you share. 

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TESTIMONIALS

Your Instructor

ALLY ISEMAN

→Hear from previous students.

As a certified consent and communication specialist, NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional, and ICF CRC-candidate, I help curious couples and individuals learn the tools and skills they need to build the relationships they want and deserve.

In 2016, I tried to open up my last monogamous relationship... and it blew up in our faces. I've spent the years since learning everything the hard way so you don't have to!

These years of trial and error, reading every book, study, and article, attending every workshop, class, and event I could find, all led to the development of this course and my 4-phase relationship design framework, The Limitless Love Formula, through which I guide my private coaching clients.

Whether you want to open up your relationship to include other people, or you just want to open up more authentically to each other, I can help you open up without blowing up!

WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR?

 

This course is ideal for individuals and couples considering consensual non-monogamy or seeking to strengthen their current relationship through intentional design. Even if you choose to remain monogamous, the skills and insights gained will enhance your relationship.

✓ more trust

✓ deeper intimacy

✓ richer connection

✓ curiosity without judgment

Your relationship deserves more than a one-size-fits-all approach. Enroll today and start building the relationship you truly desire and deserve.

NOTE: This course is educational and does not replace professional therapy or counseling. Consider consulting with a qualified professional for personalized guidance.

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GET STARTED TODAY!

Give yourself the gift of defying dismal stats to create your most fulfilling, sustainable relationship with the highest probability of success.

ENM 101: Exploring Healthy Non-Monogamy

A comprehensive yet compact online course exploring the landscape of consensual non-monogamy while providing a key takeaway tool that is imperative for relationship longevity.

 

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