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Ally Iseman, CRC, is a non-monogamy educator, erotic lifestyle consultant, and relationship architect. Over the last decade she's helped hundreds of individuals, couples, and moresomes build the relationships of their dreams, not someone else's. Whether you want to open up your relationship to include other people or explore play parties, or you just want to open up more authentically to each other, Ally can help you open up without breaking up!

"Ally was a game-changer for my wife and I. A perfect guide to brave new worlds, her one-of-a-kind mix of spiritual wisdom, sassy humor, and empathetic connection gave my wife and I much of the inspiration, and more importantly, the tools, to navigate this complicated but rewarding lifestyle."

Chris D, married open couple

"Ally is an incredible guide. When my husband and I began exploring non-monogamy, she was instrumental in helping us navigate all the new terrain and uncertainty that comes along with it. Whether it’s identifying boundaries or finding new uncharted curiosities, Ally is able to hold the space for whatever emerges with so much care and heart. I can’t recommend her highly enough."

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